You need to cut things off as permanently and quickly as possible with the girl if you have any intention of keeping your marriage.
Open up to your wife about the way you've been feeling. Communication and understanding are so important in any relationship. Do you understand yourself why you needed someone who wasn't your wife? Talk to her about any dissatisfaction you may have because I know if I was the wife in this situation I would want to understand why I wasn't enough.
Also try counseling. Sometimes a mediator is very helpful in getting each other's point across.
July 26, 2009
11:52 am
You need to cut things off as permanently and quickly as possible with the girl if you have any intention of keeping your marriage.
Open up to your wife about the way you've been feeling. Communication and understanding are so important in any relationship. Do you understand yourself why you needed someone who wasn't your wife? Talk to her about any dissatisfaction you may have because I know if I was the wife in this situation I would want to understand why I wasn't enough.
Also try counseling. Sometimes a mediator is very helpful in getting each other's point across.
Good luck.