FineLine Sketch Comedy – Extra Marital Affairs
Copyright (c) 2009 Ed Opperman
Many wives, and even husbands, “jump the gun” so to speak, and wonder what the outcome of their marriage will be if they find out that their “gut instinct” is true. If you suspect that your spouse may be cheating on you, your mind may naturally wander to the not-too-distant future, and the “what could be”. However, before you let your mind and emotions take over, and take you into the unfounded world of which you are contemplating, you need to, first of all, verify that your spouse is, in fact, having an extramarital affair.
Identifying an unfaithful spouse
While painful, the first step in healing the wounds over an affair is verifying whether or not the affair is actually taking place. While there are dozens of different signs that your spouse may be exuding that point to them cheating on you — unless you have proof, or a confession, there will always be that lingering doubt in the back of your mind.
Because the unfaithful today use the internet to aide them in their extramarital activities, online infidelity investigation services are the recommended method of either validating your suspicions, or putting them to rest for good.
Avoiding the pitfalls of false accusations
In some cases, the act of falsely accusing your spouse of cheating on you can cause irreparable harm to your relationship. In fact, these accusations may trigger the type of distrust and hurt that cheating on your spouse yourself may cause — accusations can be extremely damaging. For this reason, before you confront your spouse about your suspicions — you need to have undeniable proof that they are, in fact, having an extramarital affair.
How to heal from an extramarital affair
Once you have verified that your spouse has been cheating on you, or did cheat on you in the past — you need to confront them and take an honest look at your feelings. It will take time — yes. You may actually need to separate yourself from your spouse for a season, and maybe even your kids for a short period of time as well. Get away, sort your personal feelings about yourself out, identify what you really want, and then go back to discuss things with your spouse.
Now, there is no denying it — sometimes marriages will not work out after an extramarital affair. However, more times than not, there are ways to keep a marriage together, and even make it even stronger than it was before.
While it is true that extramarital infidelity can wreak havoc on a relationship, and it certainly can cause walls to go up between couples when an extramarital affair has taken place — an affair does not have to destroy a marriage.
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FineLine Sketch Comedy brings you a sketch about the complexities of Extra Marital Affairs, starring James Maitland, Sarah Dawn Pledge, and special appearance by Kristian Haas
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About Author
Ed Opperman is the Pres of Opperman Investigations Inc and the chief investigator for www.emailrevealer.com If you need assistance with a Dating Service (Infidelity) Investigation please feel free to visit his web site.
July 22, 2009
10:31 am
man, that chick was cheating on him the whole time… boo-urns
July 22, 2009
10:42 am
“she who eats shall not be eaten” – thats like, in the Bible or something
July 22, 2009
10:52 am
You need to cut things off as permanently and quickly as possible with the girl if you have any intention of keeping your marriage.
Open up to your wife about the way you've been feeling. Communication and understanding are so important in any relationship. Do you understand yourself why you needed someone who wasn't your wife? Talk to her about any dissatisfaction you may have because I know if I was the wife in this situation I would want to understand why I wasn't enough.
Also try counseling. Sometimes a mediator is very helpful in getting each other's point across.
Good luck.
July 22, 2009
11:20 am
Unfaithful with Diane Lane and Richard Gere.
edit: Also great is Damage with Jeremy Irons and Juliette Binoche. Very hot love scenes.
July 23, 2009
12:43 am
wow man… what a prostitute… great suggestion!
love it.
July 23, 2009
1:07 am
Those born under the year of the horse are said to be prone to extra marital affairs.
July 23, 2009
10:45 am
Yes in all probability it might happen if theya ahave been holding something inside their heart and never told each other. But the extramarital would never turn out in a serious thing
July 23, 2009
1:09 pm
fruit eh?
July 23, 2009
6:56 pm
head over to pickle party dot com
and lose that ridiculous Jiffy Pop hat.
July 24, 2009
12:05 am
Please do not vote. Not even for the dog catcher.
July 24, 2009
11:00 am
If you're good at it the persons having the affair have some fun and the spouse never finds out…
July 24, 2009
2:46 pm
hilarious! “i was with a hooker… – Uh, I WASN’T with a hooker… there was no hooker!”
July 25, 2009
8:04 am
Reminds me of my parents – lol!!
July 25, 2009
9:14 am
Considering John McCain's indiscretion was nearly 30 years ago it has no bearing today. Clinton's indiscretions on the other hand have been ongoing for thirty years, his is a pattern that is not going to stop anytime soon.
July 25, 2009
3:21 pm
Hahaha…”David Gave me a Coupn”!!!
July 25, 2009
8:18 pm
wasn’t expecting the end part… haha