How to Catch Your Wife Cheating

By SpotCheater On July 28, 2009 Under Wife Cheating
How to Catch Your Wife Cheating

Do you ever wonder how to catch your wife cheating? In many marriages one partner may go outside the relationship and cheat on the other person.  According to research, men are more likely to cheat than women but, recently there has been a substantial increase in the number of women who cheat on their husbands.  It is often hard to tell if you wife is cheating and often times husbands will mistakenly accuse their wife of seeing someone else.  If you think your wife is cheating there are ways that you can catch her.

Signs of an affair differ by each individual situation but, in most cases there are some common indicators.  The first indicator is a drastic change in behavior.  Did your wife hate night clubs but, then suddenly change her opinion and start going out with her friends on a regular basis?  Does she find reasons to go to the same place repeatedly?  This is a good indicator that something may be going on.  This alone is not proof though.  You will need more evidence before you confront her.

If you are wondering how to catch your wife cheating, you should start by monitoring her whereabouts and behavior.   You may prefer to hire someone to do this or if you have the time you can do it yourself.  This may seem a bit extreme but, there are real professionals out there who are trained to do this and will report back to you on all of her movements and who she has been with.  You should exercise caution if you choose this method because if she is not cheating and finds out you had her spied on, you could lose your relationship.

Another route you can take when trying to figure out how to catch your wife cheating is to keep a journal of her activities.  By doing this you allow yourself to notice anything out of the ordinary.  You may also want to monitor her phone calls.  A great indicator of infidelity is her making or receiving late night calls without you being aware.  If you suspect something is happening in your home, you can make unexpected stops at home during the day or just come home for lunch without notice.  You could also take off early a few days and surprise her.  You must be prepared with an explanation why you are home at these times if this is not normal for you.  If you don’t have a valid explanation she may get suspicious.  Unexpected visits can also come in handy if you suspect she is cheating with someone in the workplace.

Finally, keeping track of your wife’s spending is a great way to catch your wife cheating.  You might want to question her if she starts shopping and eating in places she doesn’t normally visit.  It is extremely important that you question her without accusing her.  If you accuse her and you are wrong this will not help your relationship any.

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17 Comments Add yours

  1. Anonymous
    July 28, 2009
    10:40 am

    realize that the karma train has made another stop

  2. shotojojo1986
    July 28, 2009
    10:44 am

    Fuck… I hate cheaters, I wish they would die!

  3. NolanMGI
    July 28, 2009
    10:59 am

    lol gotta know what she said

  4. nadiluo
    July 28, 2009
    11:37 am

    I read some of your other questions about this whole situationt to get a better picture of what went on…

    Old flame or not, secret meetings in a hotel… that is completely unacceptable. You are going to have to make the decision in the end. It is a question of wether she told you everything… I would set her down and give her one more chance to admit everything that happened between them. Tell her if she can admit everything… and make sure to include that you are an intelligent man who has a lot of doubt that kissing and hugs were all that happened between them. Watch her eyes when she speaks and hold her hand. Then decide if you are completely satisfied that she told you the truth about everything…

    If the answer is yes, then she is making an effort to be honest with you, and you have a chance to make a yes decision. You have to be able to forgive everything. You can't live in suspicion of each other, and you need to tell her you are willing to do this. Tell her she must cut him out of her life completely and go on a vacation away from everything and try to make life right again.

    If you do not feel she was being honest with you completely. I would shut her out of my life and let her go her own way. You can't love someone that you can't trust.

    I hope this helps… I'd also ask her how she expects you to be able to trust her after what she did. You can't punish her or she will do it again, but make her feel some remorse.

  5. mikxr
    July 28, 2009
    2:34 pm

    nice work mate , i don`t know that i would have that much restraint, i think i would have crushed the car flat, what a piece of work she is..

  6. esalpha1
    July 29, 2009
    2:02 am

    illegal? nah your just installing software on your computer. Its not your fault it catches passwords and usernames.
    Search for "Key loggers". Programs that are hidden away and continuously record every button pressed on the keyboard. After you get one, install it and turn it on (read instructions as they usually have activation keys like Crlt shift T or something because they are hidden). Once your wife uses the computer u can view all information. SO it will show you username password and messages etc…

  7. spiderweb20
    July 29, 2009
    4:30 am

    yeah You should put up a follow up to this.

  8. Sweetsanity
    July 29, 2009
    4:55 am

    The guy is likely going through hell – his life is falling apart, he's losing his family and what he knows – and for now he wants and needs your friend – the mistress – to be supportive and understanding. If she applies too much pressure and demands that could send him running the other way; away from her.

    re: "If he cheated on his wife, he will cheat on your friend." … That is a very naive assumption, a mean assertion about men and not necessarily true. It's quite probable he cheated on his wife because she does not satisfy him sexually but he loves her and his son and did not want to leave them. If the friend satisifes him sexually then he may be sexually faithful to her.

    If the mistress wants to pursue a no-strings attached sexual r'ship with him she needs to be clear about this and have understanding and patience for what he is going through… After all, while he created his situation she played a big part in it and has a certain responsibility to help minimise his pain and stress.

  9. ErinMASSACRE
    July 29, 2009
    3:19 pm

    lol GIVE US THE REACTION!

  10. widdowfield
    July 29, 2009
    5:14 pm

    I wish I could see her face when she came home

  11. Sven J
    July 29, 2009
    5:25 pm

    Documentation is your friend. Save those cellphone records, and if you can, clone her phone so you can see what she's been up to. I'm sure she has some hot text messages in the memory. Also install Spector Pro on your PC. You need to ck her email acct. How many lovey-dovey emails do you think they've been sending each other? I'll bet that her closest friends know that she's been screwing around.
    Document every goddamn thing you can.

    Evidently you've got the $$$, hire a PI that specializes in adultery. Trust me, it'll pay off big time. And I would also hire a shark of a lawyer.
    You can take this next piece of info to the bank – you CAN NOT play nice in court. I know how bad you want her to be seen as a lying cheating whore in court, but you've GOT to have a real asshole of an attorney. If you're not aggressive, your loving cheating wife will eat you alive in the courtroom (even if she was the one who cheated). Do you really want to lose your home, children and HALF OF YOUR ASSETS (or more)??? Then get yourself one real bastard of an attorney.

    As to the children, they'll find out just how big of a whore mama really was in short order. In the mean time, act as if all were right with the world and gather your ammo. You ARE going to lose (to a degree) during the divorce, but you want to minimize those losses.

    P.S. Don't keep your information at home. Keep it with someone you trust (who can also keep their mouth shut).

  12. thds69
    July 30, 2009
    4:40 am

    Came on! You have to tell us what her reaction was. I got even with my ex by sleeping with her sister.

  13. richard 45
    July 30, 2009
    9:57 am

    tell her to hit the road and don't bother asking for alimony because you'd win that case…

    cheaters are the worst in my book.

  14. tyroneabbott
    July 30, 2009
    11:35 pm

    What is the big attraction is catching her gonna change anything? No… If you really want to get her good sit her down and tell her that the doctor told you that you have HIV and that you must have gotten it helping a guy at work that was cut badly on a broken glass… and then swear to God that you never cheated on her. Then tell her that she needs to get tested asap. Watch her freak and make every mistake in the book.

  15. mpnemet
    July 30, 2009
    11:54 pm

    There's a product that is called checkmate. Google it. It shows where sperm has been. Even if they use a condom, some of it gets everywhere. If you get positive results that you know wasn't caused by you, do the fake business trip. Video without audio is admissable in court I believe. If there are kids involved and you want custody, get evidence. Does she perfume her underwear? Dead giveaway.

  16. tiffnmisti
    July 31, 2009
    4:36 pm

    we sooo need her reaction

  17. laynee27
    July 31, 2009
    8:07 pm

    lmfao! GOOD ON YA MATE!!! but am DYING to know what her reaction was?

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