Catch Your Wife Cheating – 5 Simple Steps
If you want to catch your wife cheating you must take some steps that may seem underhanded. If she is cheating, then what is really considered underhanded? You have the right to know if she is or not. Asking a woman if she is cheating does not always produce an honest answer. You need to know that you can take some simple steps to figure out if she is cheating or not. It is important to be delicate when trying to find out if you wife is cheating. Below you will find 5 simple steps to help you catch your wife cheating.
1. Monitor her spending habits. Check the credit card and bank records to see if she has been spending a substantial amount of money at places you have not been with her or dinners or lunches that you were not included in and did not know about. Wives that cheat will often by meals or gifts for their lover.
2. Ask a friend to follow your wife for a few days or nights. You have to be sure this is a friend you can trust. Make sure your friend can use different cars and different clothes each day so your wife will not recognize him. This is a sure fire way to catch your wife cheating.
3. Check her pay stubs to see if she has taken any days off or missed any time that you do not know about. Most cheating wives will take off work to see a lover. These stubs will show any missed time or vacation days she may have taken without you being aware.
4. Purchase a voice activated recorded to setup on your phone line at home. You can usually purchase this equipment for a low price. This will allow you to record all of the incoming and outgoing calls from your home. You can hear who your wife talks to and what the conversation is about.
5. Email accounts are an easy way to catch your wife cheating. Check email accounts for emails from unknown people. Chat rooms are another great place to check to see if your wife is talking to other men. You only need passwords to check these things. Passwords can be obtained with software that logs all keystrokes and internet activity on a computer. This type of software is usually inexpensive and can be bought at most software stores.
These are just 5 simple steps. There many other ways out there but, these are the simplest ways to catch your wife cheating.
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July 26, 2009
10:44 am
OK, just a few thoughts, but she had an ongoing RELATIONSHIP for OVER A YEAR… that is so far beyond just a minor cheating episode and a lame excuse of being drunk.
That is just unforgivable… think about it in terms like this:
Scenario #1 – If someone in the heat of the moment does something wrong and feels guilty about it and stops doing it… isolated incident, the person is redeemable.
Scenario #1 – Someone for over a year keeps doing something… knowing it is wrong, but uses a lame excuse to justify it… Something is not right in the hard wiring for right/wrong.
Just because she found God and feels guilty NOW, what if she gets bored again in a year or two?
What if she "Falls Away" from the Church? What will happen then? The source of her guilt will be gone so how long will she be with the next guy?
Cut this one loose and move on. I have little tolerance for cheaters… but she cheated and betrayed the marriage by having a separate relationship on the side, and not just one but 2 separate relationships.
July 26, 2009
10:55 am
innocence exploited.;)
July 26, 2009
10:59 am
I had a friend who had a wife that would go out the whole weekend with her friends. It's pretty sad that people can't find others that respect them enough. It's sad on both sides.
July 26, 2009
1:05 pm
July 27, 2009
2:57 pm
I am so sorry for you. I have been there and do remember the pain. You really need to search your soul. Do you want to save your marriage? It will be a long and difficult road if you do. Divorce is the quick fix. Communicate with her, counseling is an option. Basically it depends on you two. If you and your wife are willing to put this behind you and move on then try. Your choice and you will have plenty of different advice. No matter what you choose it will be hard. Good Luck!
July 27, 2009
3:45 pm
No, I wouldn't because I earn 90% of the money and I have to work all week while she has the house pretty much free. I rarely have the house free, so, aside from her being a woman and that advantage, it would be a totally unfair advantage for her.
July 29, 2009
7:56 am
I read some of your other questions about this whole situationt to get a better picture of what went on…
Old flame or not, secret meetings in a hotel… that is completely unacceptable. You are going to have to make the decision in the end. It is a question of wether she told you everything… I would set her down and give her one more chance to admit everything that happened between them. Tell her if she can admit everything… and make sure to include that you are an intelligent man who has a lot of doubt that kissing and hugs were all that happened between them. Watch her eyes when she speaks and hold her hand. Then decide if you are completely satisfied that she told you the truth about everything…
If the answer is yes, then she is making an effort to be honest with you, and you have a chance to make a yes decision. You have to be able to forgive everything. You can't live in suspicion of each other, and you need to tell her you are willing to do this. Tell her she must cut him out of her life completely and go on a vacation away from everything and try to make life right again.
If you do not feel she was being honest with you completely. I would shut her out of my life and let her go her own way. You can't love someone that you can't trust.
I hope this helps… I'd also ask her how she expects you to be able to trust her after what she did. You can't punish her or she will do it again, but make her feel some remorse.
July 29, 2009
9:47 am
July 29, 2009
2:08 pm
If you don't trust her, divorce her. Playing private eye won't help. Trust is essential