Catch Your Wife Cheating or Prove Her Innocence
Men and women may be very different creatures but when faced with the prospect of infidelity in their spouse the reactions can be very similar; anxiety, hurt, shame, anger and the two big ones … uncertainty and the destruction of the bond of TRUST. Being unfaithful may destroy trust when it is found but at least the poison of suspicion has been purged by then, so the only way to end the situation you are in is to find proof and catch your wife cheating on you or discover that your fears are unfounded.
So how do i catch my wife cheating?
Well wondering ‘is my wife cheating’ will not do anything but wind you up even further so try to remain calm and set a plan of action to investigate the possibility of infidelity. To catch a cheating spouse you do not need to plant spy devices or tail them on their nights out (though sometimes it does come to this), then first thing you should do is look for the obvious things, the signs of cheating such as strange phone behavior, consistently late from work or shopping and so forth. Build up a picture of her movements so you know the times and places you can act or investigate.
Once you do this though, the first things you should be looking at these days is the computer and cell phone. With the digitalization of modern society finding a saucy letter or something physical is less likely but finding dating sites, porn sites; saucy emails and SMS messages are much more common.
The computer is an especially important place to check email, internet histories, internet caches, cookies and everywhere that data can be stored which might contain clues. The phone is also a good place that might have SMS messages but also a list of phone numbers she calls often that might have you unthinking is she cheating with the guy from this number? If these are all clean you may have to move on to more drastic measures such as spy software to track their movements online.
These can all get some hard evidence but you must not neglect the psychological aspect of investigations which deals with detecting lies and understanding what they are really saying and how they might be trying to manipulate you which women are oh so good at.
So if you think you can do these things and want to prove their guilt or innocence and end the nightmare of suspicion and doubt then click below for a list of in depth guides than will get you a solution in a matter of days.
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Need help I'm really struggling to get over wife cheating?Hello me and my wife our in the process of getting a divorce. She cheated on me and left me for this guy. Her and this guy been on two trips, she seem to make a smooth transition from marriage life to being this guy girlfriend. Me on the other hand I'm taking it hard, I can not seem to forget about it. Can you guys recommend a good book that I can read? Not into counselors. Your answer our greatly appreciated, thank you.
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July 16, 2009
10:29 am
grrr!!! makes me angry at my wife for no reason
July 16, 2009
10:48 am
Thanks for the lecture from the Moral Majority. Now kindly go fuck yourself.
July 16, 2009
10:51 am
OK, just a few thoughts, but she had an ongoing RELATIONSHIP for OVER A YEAR… that is so far beyond just a minor cheating episode and a lame excuse of being drunk.
That is just unforgivable… think about it in terms like this:
Scenario #1 – If someone in the heat of the moment does something wrong and feels guilty about it and stops doing it… isolated incident, the person is redeemable.
Scenario #1 – Someone for over a year keeps doing something… knowing it is wrong, but uses a lame excuse to justify it… Something is not right in the hard wiring for right/wrong.
Just because she found God and feels guilty NOW, what if she gets bored again in a year or two?
What if she "Falls Away" from the Church? What will happen then? The source of her guilt will be gone so how long will she be with the next guy?
Cut this one loose and move on. I have little tolerance for cheaters… but she cheated and betrayed the marriage by having a separate relationship on the side, and not just one but 2 separate relationships.
July 16, 2009
11:27 am
I had a friend who had a wife that would go out the whole weekend with her friends. It's pretty sad that people can't find others that respect them enough. It's sad on both sides.
July 16, 2009
12:03 pm
lulz yeah, can’t escape the scissor sisters
July 16, 2009
6:26 pm
arun99 is very smart man..and i agree totally…i would get her fired from work and constantly pay people to screw with her life for the rest of my days
July 16, 2009
9:27 pm
No, I wouldn't because I earn 90% of the money and I have to work all week while she has the house pretty much free. I rarely have the house free, so, aside from her being a woman and that advantage, it would be a totally unfair advantage for her.
July 17, 2009
9:50 am
I am so sorry for you. I have been there and do remember the pain. You really need to search your soul. Do you want to save your marriage? It will be a long and difficult road if you do. Divorce is the quick fix. Communicate with her, counseling is an option. Basically it depends on you two. If you and your wife are willing to put this behind you and move on then try. Your choice and you will have plenty of different advice. No matter what you choose it will be hard. Good Luck!
July 17, 2009
10:43 am
Thx bro. so much !
July 17, 2009
11:42 am
I read some of your other questions about this whole situationt to get a better picture of what went on…
Old flame or not, secret meetings in a hotel… that is completely unacceptable. You are going to have to make the decision in the end. It is a question of wether she told you everything… I would set her down and give her one more chance to admit everything that happened between them. Tell her if she can admit everything… and make sure to include that you are an intelligent man who has a lot of doubt that kissing and hugs were all that happened between them. Watch her eyes when she speaks and hold her hand. Then decide if you are completely satisfied that she told you the truth about everything…
If the answer is yes, then she is making an effort to be honest with you, and you have a chance to make a yes decision. You have to be able to forgive everything. You can't live in suspicion of each other, and you need to tell her you are willing to do this. Tell her she must cut him out of her life completely and go on a vacation away from everything and try to make life right again.
If you do not feel she was being honest with you completely. I would shut her out of my life and let her go her own way. You can't love someone that you can't trust.
I hope this helps… I'd also ask her how she expects you to be able to trust her after what she did. You can't punish her or she will do it again, but make her feel some remorse.
July 17, 2009
12:16 pm
The G-man says: perhaps hiding in the women’s refrigerator would have been a better choice.
July 17, 2009
5:02 pm
Best revenge is living well. Jeez breathe already
July 17, 2009
8:54 pm
If you don't trust her, divorce her. Playing private eye won't help. Trust is essential
July 17, 2009
9:30 pm
July 17, 2009
9:41 pm
LOL nice
July 18, 2009
11:48 am
if i catch my wife cheating i would kick the bitch out take custody of the kids drop the kids off with my parents and FUCK every girl my wife knows. 2 wrongs does make a right…
July 18, 2009
4:58 pm