How To Recover After Cheating And AffairBy SpotCheater On July 14, 2009 Under Wife Cheating
When you find out your husband or wife has been cheating on you, your brain reacts in same fashion as the brain of a drug addict who no longer has access to drug. In your case the “drug” is the love and attachment of your husband or wife. Cheating has now compromised that love and due to this your brain is facing a serious conflict. As your brain is trying to adjust to new situation, you are experiencing similar withdrawal symptoms as a drug addict, when the brain is trying to adjust to sudden change in availability of “drug”.
It has been shown that after finding out about cheating or affair there are changes in the concentration of critical biochemical compounds in brain which are related to regulation of mood. These substances include dopamine, serotonin and endorphins. Same substances are involved in development of clinical depression and anxiety disorder.
If you are constantly thinking about the matters related to affair and cheating, the neuronal networks in your brain related to these memories will be strengthened and eventually the thoughts and unpleasant memories related to cheating will occupy your mind biggest part of the day, making it hard to concentrate on your work and other things in your life. If you do not do anything to interrupt the flow of negative thoughts, you might end up being seriously depressed.
Human brain is much more flexible than one would think. You can actively influence the way your brain works after you found out about cheating or affair. It has been shown that it is possible to “teach” brain to get rid of different kinds of phobias or to block the sensation of pain. In same manner you can “teach” your brain to let go of painful thoughts related to cheating. If you understand the reasons for your painful feelings you are able to control them better and you will recover faster after finding out about cheating.
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She has since been diagnosed with BPD.
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